Ben and I met back in 1999 when I went to school at Chadron State College. He was the type that was always upbeat and always smiling. That smile...I'll never forget it...it was SO contagious! If you were in a terrible mood and Ben walked in, you had no choice but to smile...that's how contagious it was. Ben joined the Army National Guard in the spring of 2000 and left for training. We managed to keep in touch the past nine years through letters, emails, and phone calls and we even got to hang out a few times. Even though we didn't see each other all the time and sometimes we went too long without a phone call or email, I considered Ben a great friend and I am lucky to have had him in my life!
My deepest sympathies go out to his family. I wish he could've been around longer so his daughter could grow to see how wonderful her father was! She will know through her mom, grandparents, and uncle, but it's just not the same.
This whole ordeal has made me realize just how short life is and how many of us take it for granted. Last night I had a meltdown because I am so stressed over how many things I think I need to get done and how little time I have to accomplish it all. We all need to realize that not everything is as important as we think it is. It's more important to spend time with your children, family, or friends or doing something you truly enjoy. Cherish the time you have and don't spend it worrying about the little things! Get out there and live life to the fullest!
To Ben - Thanks for being such a great friend and thanks for the memories! You will be deeply missed! Rest in peace!
"We understand death for the first time when he puts his hand on one whom we love." ~ Madame de Stael
"Life is too short, so kiss longer, laugh harder, love deeper, and smile sweeter." ~ unknown
